I had a plan...

No. Really I did have a plan. I swear there were rainbows and unicorns involved too! However, I have learned that if you want to see God smile, tell him your plans. The plan I had did not turn out and that's okay. We have learned so much in the last year and I know it is a good thing.

So cheers to new lessons and new adventures!

Here are a few things that I have learned about myself, about my marriage, and about my children.

Things I have learned about myself.

1) I am stronger than I think I am. While the cross that I bear is heavy, I know I am not alone in my trials. I know that I have friends, family, and other resources to lean on when things get hard.
2) My faith is unshakable. I am not a church person, but I do have faith that God has a plan for me.
3) Learning is my true passion. When I am learning, I am happy. When my hands and my mind are engaged in something meaningful my heart is full of joy. Learning to sew and crochet has given me a sense of well being and accomplishment!

Things I have learned about my marriage.

1) Being married is a commitment. I know that sounds so obvious. However, I think we often forget that "I do" doesn't imply that you know how to be everything your spouse needs or that your spouse knows how to be everything you need. It is a trial by fire commitment. The ups and downs of being married are what makes us a stronger unit!
2) I have truly found my partner. I find strength in his presence and humility in his acceptance of my faults. In all that I do, I know he will be there to support and encourage me along the way.


1) Children will grow by leaps and bounds when you give them sunshine, dirt and freedom. Riding bikes is a new found realm of physical activity and freedom for all three kiddos. It gives me such joy to see them learn what their bodies are capable of.
2) I have learned that saying "no" takes up more time than saying, "show me how it's done." All three kids have learned to read recipes and follow directions in the kitchen. Lunch is no longer a chore for me since one of three is usually willing to put on a quick meal of grilled cheese, soup, sandwiches or a myriad of other easy meals.
3) Having my children home 24/7 has shown me what a real joy it is to be a part of these blooming personalities.  Each and every day they amaze me with their insight and brilliance.

I am truly looking forward to the days in front of us!